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Distressed jeans and the older man - a change from suits and blazers

Monday, 21 January 2013

Looking back at the blog over the last few weeks, there has been a disproportionate number of images of men in suits, blazers, ties and formal shirts. It's time to explore casual wear for the middle-aged man.

This image is from September 2008 GQ. I guess this man is mid-forties. As such, he's (apparently) breaking every denim rule in the book; an older man not only wearing jeans (oh dear!), but (worse) distressed jeans.

I like the look, particularly with brown brogues. There's no harm in pushing boundaries. He avoids looking like a middle-aged man dressing like a teenager (to be honest, what teenager would dress like this anyway?) My preference would be for naturally-aged jeans. I don't like the dishonesty of artificially-distressed clothing.

To read more on older men and jeans, go here, For discussion of distressed clothes, see here.


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Labels: denims, jeans and middle age

21 comments

  1. Karen21 January 2013 at 17:40

    Actually, he looks foolish.

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  2. Grey Fox22 January 2013 at 00:47

    In what way, Karen?

    Thanks for the comment.
    GF.

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  3. Anonymous22 January 2013 at 01:46

    Casual wear doesn't just have to mean denim and even more denim does it?

    The brogues are the best thing about this outfit, for the rest, it looks like he's trying too hard to be casual and in fact looks scruffy. Well to my eyes that is.

    David

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  4. Grey Fox22 January 2013 at 02:33

    Thanks David - I knew this was going to be a controversial post which, of course, is why I posted it!

    I don't claim anywhere that denims are the only casual option.

    You may be right about the trying too hard. This man works for Levi's so has a point to make.

    GF.

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  5. H22 January 2013 at 04:47

    Faux distressed denim on anyone isn't a great look IMHO. Especially with patches as in the GQ shoot.
    My other half (in his mid forties) wears jeans (Gap) til they're falling apart and I have to say there's something rather nice about (naturally) worn out jeans with his worn-in sheepskin Emu boots. But UGG style boots on men is probably a whole other blog post...!
    As with many things when it comes to style, I guess it's a lot about how you carry yourself, your build and your lifestyle as to what suits.

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  6. Grey Fox22 January 2013 at 06:25

    Thanks, H, for the wise comment. I'm beginning to believe exactly what you say in the last sentence. So much of style and appearance is down to self-belief and confidence. After all, it's all about self-expression.

    Accordingly, we can say if we like a look or not; but to mock it would be invidious.

    GF.

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  7. Nick M22 January 2013 at 08:29

    I'm with Karen, H and David on this -- this particular image is a self-conscious and silly look.

    ....in my opinion.

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  8. L'age moyen22 January 2013 at 10:39

    Well, I will be the naysayer here, I like it. if they were artificially distressed then absolutely not, but real life worn denim, lovingly patched is akin to beaten leather and softened tweed, richer and more cherished for its journey, just like the person sporting it. I must admit I am also currently patching my beloved 12 year old jeans and can hardly wait to get back into them.

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  9. Grey Fox22 January 2013 at 12:07

    Thank you L'Age Moyen. I take your view on this. Good luck with the jeans. GF.

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  10. Natural Workwear22 January 2013 at 12:22

    I don't understand all the hatred for the "unnaturally" distressed jeans. I think that they look great!

    And that's what counts, right?

    Frankly, only older men ought to wear anything distressed, as only they have an outside chance of having accomplished it.

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  11. Karen22 January 2013 at 17:43

    Hi Grey Fox -- I just think it looks like he's "trying too hard" to be hip. If I saw him walking down the street the first thing I'd think would be "why are his jeans all ripped up?" and NOT, "that's a good-looking guy." (Which he is!)

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  12. Mathew22 January 2013 at 20:31

    Well, I'll toss in my two cents - I do like it. And I very much agree that clothes like these work best if worn with a natural confidence, best achieved when one's working lifestyle and personality are a natural partner to the rugged clothes. Such individuals just 'look' right and can carry it off no matter what.

    I also prefer distressed clothing whose wounds were achieved naturally (miles of crawling in remorse ? hours spent working under the car ? sliding down a bannister ?); The extent of it for me is usually frayed leg hems thanks to a playful dog, or thready rips at the knee. After that, they're not seen beyond the house or garden but still get plenty of use for as we all know, nothing's more comfortable than a pair of well-worn jeans.

    GF the picture brings up another point that might be an interesting topic to discuss sometime :- Facial hair for the bald or balding man: Yea or nay ? Best and worst ? What of it and how much ? I think it suits the model in the pic and compliments the clothes and style of the image.

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  13. Grey Fox23 January 2013 at 14:20

    Thank you all for the comments so far; a fascinating mix of opinions. I like Natural Workwear's logical point that only older men will have had time to allow their denims to deteriorate naturally! Thank you also Karen and Mathew, opposing views to some extent.
    Facial hair for the balding man? Too much of a hot potato I think. I'd need views from those who know more about it than me.
    GF.

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  14. Gruntfuttock24 January 2013 at 09:53

    Hi Dave,

    yes, he does look distressed! I have thrown away better jeans. Oh, and turn-ups on jeans just remind me of skin-head fashion. Just showing my age I guess. :-)
    Cheers
    Gruntfuttock

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  15. Anonymous24 January 2013 at 22:39

    Love the blog. Hate the jeans!

    He looks foolish to me, too. If he only had genuinely stressed jeans...

    To each his/her own, of course.

    James

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  16. Anonymous25 January 2013 at 16:03

    Actually the article states they are 501's distressed by the man himself, so genuine......a little pretentious but ok to me.

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  17. Anonymous25 January 2013 at 16:13

    By the way found your blog via The Sartorialist and I am enjoying catching up on the previous blogs, I am over 60 and can still get into some skinny jeans but looking to start a more mature style befitting my elderly status. Buys this week - two chambray shirts, one herringbone double breasted blazer in grey, they are looking good together. I love January sales!

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  18. Grey Fox26 January 2013 at 09:31

    Thanks all. I'm beginning to think I should adopt one reader's suggestion of having readers' pictures - it would be great to show people how a man over 60 can dress with pride and style!

    Thanks for all the wonderful comments; it's good to see we're not taking ourselves too seriously!

    GF.

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  19. John Kedzie8 May 2013 at 16:27

    What is the fascination with pants that are too short? Either rolled up or just too short they almost always look silly.

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  20. Mark Allanson25 November 2016 at 00:22

    So refreshing to come across someone who doesn't think that the only acceptable denim on anyone over 30 is regular fit dark denim...yawn.

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  21. Mark Allanson25 November 2016 at 00:22

    So refreshing to come across someone who doesn't think that the only acceptable denim on anyone over 30 is regular fit dark denim...yawn.

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